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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you both just state your points of view to each other and since they are opposing or when they are opposing, you are then at a stalemate. You should work with someone to see how to communicate differently. To put the issue / wants / needs / pros / cons on the table and then work on the solution together. Instead you are each stating the solution and then you have two differing solutions. You are both becoming resentful because neither of you want to hear the other's solution as it feels like right / wrong - someone gets their way. You need to learn how to work collaboratively and to communicate in a way that doesn't shut that down. I would suggest working with someone so there is a neutral party. They can give you homework and exercises until you have a new pattern of communicating.[/quote]
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