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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also where are your savings? Lost deposits for the wedding or sunk costs, or have you gone through all of it to support the two of you with daily expenses?

Finally, what do you mean by "fines" He is paying back the company or he was convicted of a crime (if so you should be out of there)?
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I haven't lost any money towards the wedding. We actually about to pay our first deposit when I all of this happened. Right now I am covering our living expenses, plus my student loans and both of our car payments. We have had car issues and a variety of expenses to pop up. I slowly used my savings to keep us afloat. I didn't have much to begin with, just enough to pay my half of the rent and car payment for 6 months if I ever lost my job. I was only the Dave Ramsey plan and I was bringing him on board when all this happened.

The day he was suspended his managers were arrested on embezzlement charges. When they called FH back up to the office a week later, we didn't know what to expect so he went with an attorney. They decided to not press charges but instead he has to pay them back damages totaling $13,000 (over 3 years). In order for them to agree to this his he had to pay almost half up front (as a faith based payment) and then monthly payments until it is settled. My knowledge is this is this same penalty of the managers, although they were charged. No one was given jail time.

I have not paid a single cent towards his fines and I absolutely refuse to. I did pay $800 to the attorney (friend of a friend) and he did the rest pro bono. I don't much about the legality of it. I was on the call when he provided us with our options and we made the decision together. I didn't attend any meetings myself because I had just started a new job and was in my first 90 days. I didn't want to miss work. [/quote]

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