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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry OP but you may be dodging a bullet here - you probably love him and love can make you blind to some serious red flags here. There are three important red flags: (1) he showed dishonesty and lack of ethics at work - and doesn't seem to have taken accountability for it (2) he doesn't seem to care how you feel - he is dismissive about your feeling it sounds; and (3) he is passive aggressive communicator. You are enabling him by continuing to support him, and if you are married you will be liable to pay for his creditor obligations. Since you have cancelled the formal wedding, I would delay your official wedding to 2020 until you figure some more out. Seriously, I feel like there is more he is hiding. Let him pay off his fines himself, and work his ass off for a while. You should not have to carry the burden of his mistakes. How old are you? Do either of you have kids? Why the rush to get married?[/quote]
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