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[quote=Anonymous]Recently I figured out that my H is a covert narcicisst (married around 14 years) who has been gaslighting and playing mind games. His actions at the end of last year caused me to call it quits and contact a divorce lawyer but he begged for “ one last chance” which I gave him “for the sake of the kids” ?
Of course, he went back to his usual abusive and manipulative  ways and I am just done but he’s begging for another final last chance. My brain and heart are telling me to tell him to go screw himself, but I am financially dependent on him for my medical situation (cancer). He wants me to get it in writing that if he screws up again then I can walk away with no issues and I’m afraid if I don’t agree to this he will make this divorce very difficult. The divorce is inevitable, I can’t live with him knowing his true face, but I’m also tempted by the offer to come up with something in writing to obligate him to leave me alone when he screws up again. I can’t stand being around him and would rather divorce him but he is hounding me to give him another chance and “save our family”.

What would you do in this situation? Does coming up with some kind of contract make sense...is this a thing? I’m so confused and can’t think straight that I doubt my own ability to see the pros and cons so that’s why I’m asking here  :([/quote]

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