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[quote=Anonymous]If you've discovered the affair recently, your head is not the right place.  So I am going to tell you the reality of the "revenge affair."

The only way to have a revenge affair and have it feel good long-term (and not regret after) is to make it completely, utterly secret, far removed from your daily life and people you know, so that it is truly something ONLY FOR YOU.

If your affair becomes public in any way, you will lose whatever high ground you currently have.  Your husband will lose all respect for you.  Yes I know you might be in a mood to break stuff right now but you may regret it later.  It's extremely difficult to come back from.   Don't make your affair public.

Also, the AP's spouse will have zero interest in sleeping with you. They will be too shocked by the news to have anything left for you.  So that you will be hurt by rejection in addition to the affair.  Don't do it.  Not because of any moral reason, but because it is guaranteed to feel bad for you in a whole variety of ways.[/quote]

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