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my cousin and I grew up very close. We are the same age. Through our lives we were very close and hung out every weekend when we were single-almost like best friends. We were in each others wedding parties, she is my son's godmother. 
We both ended up getting married and moving away-we live 3 hours from each other. We text often and see each other a few times a year or so, in addition to seeing them at family events.

There is an annual event that[b] occurs near my city (3. 5 hours from her home[/b]). I haven't been to this event in 20 plus years. Cousin used to go annually until 10 years ago when she moved.

I texted her last week telling her I am going to the event and asking her what people usually wear/ dress code. She told me the dress code and stated that she hasn't gone in over 10 years etc. She didn't text all week after that.

I am at the event, I turn around and see her sitting at a table with her husband, far away from my table. I was surprised, they came over and said hi and we talked for a few minutes. She told me they got a babysitter and booked a hotel for the night--all while repeating how they decided to come last minute (doubtful due to distance, babysitter, hotel booking). Then dh offers them to sit at our table. Cousin says no thanks, they are saving seats for friends. There were about 2-4 guests that sat at their table, so they could have fit at our table.

I am wondering why she didn't text me to tell me she is coming to the event.
Also, I am hurt they didn't want to sit with us or anywhere close to us.

My conclusion: she just isn't that into me/ doesn't like me as much as I like her.  Am I right? [/quote]

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