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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Screaming is verbally abusive. I'm sure you don't mean to be an abuser, so you have to stop.  Do you want to think about it and tell me tomorrow how you'd like me to bring up things that make you uncomfortable going forward? Because sometimes we DO need to talk about money, or getting a lump biopsied or DS having special needs."[/quote]

This is a good script for you, OP.

If you say this and he blows up at it, then tell him that since he can't even talk about talking about certain topics, it's time for you both to get an objective, neutral professional who can work with you both on communication as a couple. (Don't say to him "YOU can't communicate," say that as a couple you're not communicating.) Make an appointment with a marriage counselor pronto and when the day comes if DH balks or bit$&es about going, calmly tell him either you both go and commit to it or you'll go to individual therapy to rethink why the marriage is not working for you.

I do agree though with an earlier PP who asked what the topics are that make him so resistant and angry. That does matter. [/quote]

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