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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, I’m sorry OP. No, you’re not being unreasonable. He is a narcissist.  I don’t understand what kind of educational field in Fed that requires him to work until the wee hours. I’m sorry, but I too think he might be having an affair. He hardly spends any time with you or the kids, spends all his money on his upkeep and colleagues. I thought at the very least that he makes big money and you are a SAHM. This is not a normal behavior from a caring husband and a good dad. He should feel bad that he can’t do more which doesn’t seem the case.

I’m married to a workaholic but I’m a SAHM. He travels a ton but he spends weekends cooking for us and trying to help out as much as possible.  He works hard to provide for us and to build his career so that we have a good  life not just to impress others.  If he’s working so hard, why would there be a risk for him to get fired? Makes no sense. Do you know any of his coworkers?

You really need to have a serious discussion with him and do some digging around so you can plan. Also the fact that you two have been together since college is concerning since people change a lot in their 20s and 30s.[/quote]

+1 narcissist or affair.
Divorce.  He will At least have to take the kids a few nights a week and you will get a break. He’s freeloading in your labor right now.  Suck that you will both have to live in apts but it’s what I would do in your shoes. [/quote]

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