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[quote=Anonymous]I would ask her what role she would like you to take in the process. I would buy the book Taking control of your Fertility and educate yourself about TTC, but then I would follow her lead. Do not “mansplain” fertility or her body to her. If she wants you to be involved by helping her take her temp daily, ask her how that should go. Figure out what her love language is and pre-plan some things you can do to ease the disappointment and re-connect as a couple each month you don’t conceive. One of the hardest parts of my long fertility journey to IVF was that sex became a scheduled chore. It was important to take time to have sex just for fun and to talk about things other than TTC and children. [/quote]
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