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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My spouse has ADD plus BPD, anxiety, and depression. He works in a stressful job and makes at least double what I do ($250k). I’m at wits end how to deal with his unreliability, endangering the kids, not listening, not remembering things, zero reaction time to incidents. and then his anger explosions every two weeks after all his mishaps build up. Would me being a Stay at Home parent mollify this? It would be safer and better for the kids, and might minimize his explosions (every time if I have ever a day trip away)? [b]If we were to divorce later, if this didn’t de-stress the situation and make him less angry, would I be totally screwed? [/b]Forced to go back to work and quickly take whatever I can find at a pay cut?[/quote] Probably. I hate that that's the $.02 I'm giving you, OP, but realistically, leaving the workforce before you may need to exit a marriage isn't a good idea. I say this as a divorced parent. [/quote]
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