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[quote=Anonymous]Why does he need to buy gifts for your kids? Otherwise, he's doing you a favor by being so clear. he does not want to pay for stuff for other people. Now you know, and you can make plans accordingly. Stop arguing with him about it, stop expecting him to pay, just accept that he's not paying. If you want to buy a gift for your parents or take them out to dinner or throw them a party, do that. If you all go out to eat, arrange for separate checks. I can see why you'd disagree with him, but getting frustrated with him is stupid--he's been quite clear about it, and he's not going to change. Stop expecting him to. Do what you want with your money, let him do what he wants with his. In some ways, this lets you off the hook for stuff--you don't need to buy him gifts, or treat him to meals, or anything else. [/quote]
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