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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a bunch of fantasies that are somewhat between tame and minor leagues and wife isn't into any of them.  We have discussed perhaps my getting them met outside the marriage.

It's hard to tell whether it's a minor fantasy you should try to indulge vs something that is a fetish too far.  More details?[/quote]

It involves other people, public places or other performative acts, like me picking up someone in a bar and taking them to a hotel room (btw, this is the one that caused the most recent fight, because I had agreed to flirting with a stranger in a bar, even though that neither turns me on nor makes me feel good about myself, so DH could watch, but that wasn’t enough). I meant what I wrote about this not being vanilla stuff.[/quote]

Person you are responding to and yes that's too much to push for.

I think part of the problem is men can't understand why you wouldn't want to do that.  Because close to 100% of men would say yes enthusiasticly if their wives asked them to have sex with other women as a turn on to them[/quote]

Most men would have trouble understanding why "wife sleeping with another man" is a turn-on for him, let alone her.[/quote]

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