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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Meh. I'm mostly the initiator too. I don't mind. It's a lot of mental labor and I think some are just swamped with other things to make the effort. If I want to see people, I initiate [/quote] Doesn't that hurt your feelings, though? Like, if people wanted to see you enough, they would make the effort to initiate once in a while? [/quote] It does sometimes but I try not to dwell on it. Some people just don't think of others as much when they're in the midst of their own stresses. I'm fully aware that I'm much more in tune with other people's needs and wants than many. Comes from growing up with my mom who is great but whose feelings and expectations I needed to manage in order to have a peaceful relationship. I have found some other people who are lovely and easy going and initiate low key things and that's great and I enjoy spending time with them. [/quote]
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