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[quote=Anonymous][b][quote=Anonymous]OP, if they were always good friends to you and kind in the past, have you tried gently confronting and asking if you'd done something to offend them? "Hey, I noticed you guys went to X last week. I would have loved to join as well, but your plans weren't shared with me. Is there a reason I was excluded?" You have nothing to lose. If they still don't respond, they just suck. [/b]

I'm sure that's not you, but my friend group stopped inviting someone on group trips after she got incoherently drunk, behaved awfully (getting combative/yelling) and had to be taken care of (getting sick/passing out) on several trips in a row. We didn't ghost though, we told her we weren't comfortable with her drinking and needed her to tone it down. She was offended, said she'd done nothing wrong and was just having a good time, we "took things the wrong way", and she essentially saw no reason to change her behavior. That was the last time she was included. [/quote]

This is good advice, and the only way to potentially learn what's really going on.[/quote]

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