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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if they were always good friends to you and kind in the past, have you tried gently confronting and asking if you'd done something to offend them? "Hey, I noticed you guys went to X last week. I would have loved to join as well, but your plans weren't shared with me. Is there a reason I was excluded?" You have nothing to lose. If they still don't respond, they just suck. I'm sure that's not you, but my friend group stopped inviting someone on group trips after she got incoherently drunk, behaved awfully (getting combative/yelling) and had to be taken care of (getting sick/passing out) on several trips in a row. We didn't ghost though, we told her we weren't comfortable with her drinking and needed her to tone it down. She was offended, said she'd done nothing wrong and was just having a good time, we "took things the wrong way", and she essentially saw no reason to change her behavior. That was the last time she was included. [/quote]
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