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[quote=Anonymous]In my early 30s I was friendly with a woman who had a ton of good qualities, but as the friendship went on she was shown to be incredibly controlling and had a breathtakingly mean streak. I made the effort to sort of fade from her, but it just turned into bad blood. She demanded my time a lot and when said I was busy she just continued to be really dark. I hear her name every once in a while and I know she just can't stand me and the fact I stopped being friends with her.

I was just searching some emails totally unrelated and an email came up from her back from 2014 when she was like, "Is everything ok with us?" and I responded, "yeah, all fine," basically. This makes me now think how mean that was of me. But on the other hand, I didn't want to be friends with her, and confronting her with her being so nasty and manipulative would not have done much. She wasn't gone to change a part of herself that I still think is just who she is.

I wonder if I ghosted her or distanced myself from a toxic person. I feel this afternoon that I owe her an explanation--but the explanation is so harsh. [/quote]

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