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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think you should ghost her as a punishment.  People like that never take that as a punishment, they will act like you are just an ungrateful child.  You should do what it takes to maintain your mental health.  If that means stepping away from the relationship, then do that.  But it needs to be what you need to stay sane ... don't worry about being punitive towards your mom.[/quote]

+1.  You are still centered on her, so the control still lies with her.  You must be centered on yourself.  You need to make decisions for yourself, and not concern yourself about how it makes her feel.  Also, you have no control about how it makes her feel (punished is what you want, but no guarantee).  Take control, OP.  Of yourself.

Now, just one tangent.  In the future, please put paragraph breaks in your writing.  Paragraph breaks and a space between paragraphs.  Think of your audience.  It's hard to read.  Think of yourself--you'll get more replies if it's easier to read.[/quote]

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