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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry this happened. How upsetting! First, don't say anything to your daughter. Second, it really depends on what the girls were saying and how they were saying it. Was it mean girl relational aggression (bullying)? That would need to be addressed from a coach/team perspective. Now, if it wasn't bullying behavior then you need to think about what it was. Was it girls being gossipy about your daughter because she is different from the typical group on the team? Or was there some positive element you can take from the comments to help her fit in better? You may have to digest it a little bit to get to the heart of what was happening and then how to address it. Third, once you know what happened and the root of why it was being said, then you know whether to get others involved (bullying) or whether to forget it ever happened or to talk to your daughter about elements of it (without disclosing why or what happened) ...[/quote]
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