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[quote=Anonymous]I have a chronic illness & see both sides. You MUST work together. He works so give hi credit there. If his illness includes chronic fatigue & pain, please don't discount the mental toll it takes. He works so props to him for that. And props to you for picking up the slack. Maybe he can pick up more of the mental load and you handle the physical tasks. He can meal plan & make the shopping lists, schedule appointments, pay the bills, plan gatherings & parties, take on decluttering tasks where he can sit etc. I made a pointed effort to mentally support H when he picks up the slack. I take time to write a heartfelt note, record a new show he'd like, make a special dinner.[/quote]
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