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Reply to "Friends divorced: ex-wife mad at me for accepting family invitation from ex-husband for 4th of July"
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[quote=Anonymous]I would simply say what you said here: The divorce had an impact on your entire family and you made a decision as a family not to choose a side. You are not going to get in the middle, as both were friends. Our kids are so close that I can't not accept an invite to get them together and I was not going to separate from my family. I know this is very hard on you and I want to assure you that we will always be there for you but we are not going to choose sides. Tell her you hope she can get past it. It is the nature of the beast. Some people become competitive after the divorce. They try to "win" the divorce but it almost always backfires. The person that stays quiet and doesn't make drama at every turn usually is the one most mutual friends are most comfortable around.[/quote]
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