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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would just re-iterate to her that you love both of them, and that your door remains open to her going forward.

Do you have some inkling as to the cause of the divorce?  Was there cheating involved?[/quote]

This. She is still hurting from the divorce and her feelings and emotions are raw. Let her know you're there for her and give her time to grieve and to come around.

Her emotions are raw and her feelings of hurt and loss are strong. It will take her time to grieve the loss of her life as she had - even if the divorce was her initiative and she is better off, still there is grief for lifestyle, friends, etc. If not for divorce, she would have been hosting that party, but probably her ex got the kids this holiday and she is hurting that to her ex, kids, and you nothing changed. You are still meeting together and celebrating like before the divorce but things changed for her. As you say, this is recent and it will take time for all to come to a new normal. [/quote]

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