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[quote=vtbigdog][quote=Anonymous]tell your mom that all of you can't make it because they already have plans but that you can be there if she wants. and to next time give you more of a heads up. The 29th is a Thursday, so why couldn't his bday acknowledgement happen the previous weekend (is THIS weekend).

Also, sorry dude, but you seem to be acting the victim here. You're a victim of your wife, your mother, and your golden boy brother. Come on. Your dad's bday doesn't change, you said yourself you guys typically go to visit. So why didn't YOU make plans, block off that weekend, ask mom when you should come to celebrate? And if you feel the way you do about your brother, why haven't you talked to your parents about how their treatment makes you feel? Sounds to me you expected your wife to make the plans and want to blame her for not remembering or prioritizing your father's birthday (which is in the middle of the week, not a weekend this year). Nope. It's YOUR job to prioritize it. [/quote]

We normally go to my parents for this weekend for a least dinner. My wife made plans without checking with me. I would have red flagged it before. I mentioned it was the weekend we normally go to my parents house.

It is like if I made plans on my wife's mother's birthday or the 4th. Kind of givens that we are doing those things. [/quote]

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