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[quote=Anonymous]If you do not have explicit agreement between you regarding opening the marriage one way or the other, then this is something to address.

The point is (presumably) to keep the two of you together an both happy. It's not to shame him like a puppy, but to bring you back closer together. It's hard to keep strong emotions out of this, but try -- you can talk about being upset, but try to deal with the storms of it yourself.

"Hey, I saw a woman looking at you a certain way in the pictures. I looked her up, and she's posted pictures of you with her arms around you. Then I saw the text on your phone. We have to talk about this. What's going on?"

Then listen. Try to ep your mouth shut. Almost certainly there will be minimization and justification. Ask him if he would be okay with you doing the same with someone at a reunion, and then following up with similar texts about needing a cold shower after he sends you revealing pictures.

Maybe he'll say he would. At that point you have to have a discussion about whether this is the kind of relationship you signed up for, and if the goalposts have moved. If they have, you need to talk about that together.[/quote]

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