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[quote=Anonymous]My father is bipolar and interacts with our daughter in an extremely manic way. He acts like a child and does things like repeat odd phrases and cackle maniacally to get a reaction from her or fake crying after some small slight. He also misses social cues so parenting her around him is difficult. For example when we are trying to get her to play by herself after dinner while everyone else eats at the table, he'll keep engaging with her if she comes over to the table.

She is 3.5 and is very social and we are trying to teach her how to interact appropriately with others. She gets really wound up because of how he acts, mostly while he's here but I'm worried it'll start spilling over into her regular behavior (she sometimes cackles with other kids). After seeing her interact with her other grandparents I realized this isn't an "excited about grandparents" thing. They act like adults and she stays calm.

The current family dynamic is that he comes over to our house once a week for about 3 hours to visit and have dinner. I've told him repeatedly to stop winding her up, he doesn't see his behavior as out of the ordinary and will also make snide comments when I point it out. Clearly he's not going to change.

Should I be concerned about this or deal with it? My ideas are limit how often we see him or maybe start seeing him only in public because I don't think he'll act as strangely.[/quote]

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