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[quote=Anonymous]There is no way I would allow him to have your child for all vacation time. Vacations and down time are very different then the day to day grind and it is important that you get to share some of that time with your child. So you should be able to have time with your child over the summer and winter or spring break. You should probably rotate who has the child for Christmas or whatever holiday that you celebrate.

Your ex is the one making a major change, that should not interfere with your ability to spend time over vacations with your child. You should have time to enjoy your child when he is more relaxed and in a different place mentally then he would be during the grind of the school year.

Someone else mentioned it but it is important to keep in mind what activities your child is involved in. If he is in band or a sport that has summer activities, that has to be taken into consideration.

Talk to your attorney and tell your ex that you need time to figure out what you think the plan of action should be but that it will not be that your child spends all of his vacation time with your ex.

And yes, your ex is responsible for arranging and paying for all travel. He is the one moving, he has to be responsible for the cost of seeing his child. [/quote]

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