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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think it's cool to shame your spouse, but look at it from her perspective: he's lying to claim credit for something he cannot do but she can.  If he's not typically a liar it might have just caught her off guard and she reacted.  Or if he does lie a lot it might have crossed the line for her when he decided to claim her accomplishment as his own (while downplaying her actual accomplishment: if he can say "where's the bathroom" and is calling that speaking the language, then he's not giving her credit for being actually fluent, which is a much bigger accomplishment.)  I might have let it go but if my DH announced that he was a triathlete or something at a work dinner, something he is not but I am, I can see myself reacting without thinking "should I be a good spouse and back this play?"[/quote]

Beware of the spouse that always has to look like the good guy - imagine having to live with that sh*t, day in, day out?  Deal with your stuff and stop trying to drag your spouse down. [/quote]

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