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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh for the love of Pete. Grow a backbone and get these men out of your house. You’re just enabling them and stunting their growth. But I realize that is a huge leap. Start with the meals. Set a time when you and your spouse are eating. If your son’s are not available, they’re on their own for prep AND clean-up. 
Please tell me you’re not doing their laundry and that you are charging some rent. Please. [/quote]

I am embarrassed to say that no, We are not charging rent, and their laundry is being done, we have a cleaning lady here three days a week and yes she does their laundry. As hard as it is to hear this, it is so good for me I thought I was losing my mind and I vacillate between being a bitch or just being complete crutch-  this is validating so thank you [/quote]

Sit down with your husband and make a plan. Write it down. Then sit down and share with sons. Beginning August 1 and continuing:
—Rent in the amount of $500 is due 
—$200 is due for groceries
—They have 6 months to move to a place of their own. 
—They are responsible for their own meal prep and clean-up. [/quote]

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