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[quote=Anonymous]ADVICE: 
Drop the expectation that you're going to have a dream relationship with your MIL. Just let it go. You're trying to force something that isn't going to happen. She's made it clear where she stands. She's not going to gush over you and tell you that you're the daughter she's always longed for. Nope. Not going to happen.

Instead, focus your efforts on being polite and kind and being an adult with boundaries. Call out bullsh*t if you see it, but do so in a way that anyone listening would see you as a mature person.

1. Didn't expect you to come to dinner after announcing engagement?
"Oh Madge, you're so funny. Of course we want to celebrate our engagement with you as a couple. We're family now."

2. Says, "Thank god I'm only on the hook for the rehearsal dinner." 
"I'm so excited for our families to come together at the rehearsal dinner. I know it will be lovely."

3. Hasn't reached out to your parents?
Have yours reached out to her?

4 & 5. Not interested in planning the wedding?
Okay. That's fine. Don't force it. And don't judge her for not being interested in those details and decisions.

6. Asked if she should bring her own beer?
"Sure Madge."

7. Friend asked about getting ready in the bridal suite.
"I'm sorry. We're just limiting it to the bridal party. Thanks for understanding." [/quote]

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