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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry to hear this OP but you need to be speaking to the attorney not crowd sourcing this.  I'd find out if the laws are friendlier to you in the state you are in vs the state he wants you to move to.  
I'd ask the lawyer but here's what I would do.
I'd plan my trip.  It's a free country and you are not doing anything illegal by taking your kids on an interstate vacation.  
I'd send him an email as the plane is taking off.  "Hi Honey, as we do every summer, the kids and I are going to visit grandma from x date to y date and we will be back at home on y date.  The kids and I love you very much and I sure hope you won't follow through on divorcing me over this vacation.  In any case, I look forward to seeing you when we get back.  Love, Larla"

So you are being transparent, keeping him in the loop, being nice, subtly acknowledging his threat to divorce you, and not committing to moving to TX.  The ball will then be in his court.  I doubt family court will appreciate him using his status as an attorney to threaten you with false statements as if he has the legal authority to prevent you from interstate travel and that you will lose custody of your kids.  But, like I said, ask a real lawyer not DCUM.

I'd be very hesitant to move to TX as it doesn't seem like the most woman friendly place to me if he divorces you.  Stick to a blue state.  
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