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[quote=Anonymous]If you can, try to manage expectations. Let them know you won't be available every week for example, if that's what they're thinking. Find a way to ask what their long term care plans are. Ideally your DH will do this in a clear conversation, but if not you can push back when they mention their mental image of how this is going to go. I was really upset and worried when my ILs moved here, but it turned out to be a huge help and good for my kids. There were tensions and adjustments but now I'm glad they're here.[/quote]
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