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[quote=Anonymous]I'd say it depends on how frequent these tantrums are, how intense, and how long they last.  Little kids get tired and hungry and overwhelmed, and sometimes they just can't keep it together and have real meltdowns.  I don't classify that as a tantrum.

But if your son is still mostly in control, then he's doing this either because he can't articulate why he's upset, or because he's trying to manipulate you to get what he wants.  So I'd address both prongs--talk to him about his younger sibling, how he feels, and ways that he could ask for what he wants without tantrumming.  AND when he does tantrum, just ignore him.  Totally and utterly.  Leave the room if you can.  On the flip side, when he does use his words, praise him and give him positive attention.

I agree about keeping on top of meals and sleep and activity--tired, hungry, antsy kids are rarely well-behaved.  Work to help him develop the skills to communicate appropriately, and give him no attention when he tantrums.  (If these are true meltdowns, not tantrums, then work on helping him figure out how to calm down, relax, and take a minute to get it together is more useful.)[/quote]

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