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Reply to "Advice please....long distance relationship in 50's..ugh......female perspective sought"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, there should be no goal. Men often want to work toward a goal. It is what it is, and you still have reason to believe that it will continue to be great to be together. If it's not, and she's had second thoughts, well ... there's not much anyone else can do I would just say - do not push for anything. As with any relationship, friendship or otherwise, if you feel your efforts aren't being matched, then dial back a bit until there is an equilibrium. The 3 hrs distance is pretty ordinary for having separate adult lives. A family member had a relationship for 7 years cross country before getting married in their 60's. I know 70 yr olds who married but continued to have "his" house and "her" house 3 hours away.[/quote]
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