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[quote=Anonymous]Yeah, if you feel like that keep a foot in the door at minimum. All the women I know who quit are overwhelmed at home now by being default everything. It really changes the dynamic of the marriage. I think it would be preferable even to do PT and put every penny into help with laundry, cooking, etc. — soon (very soon, believe me) your child will be in preschool/kindergarten and you can scale up your work then. In the meantime you are investing in your own work experience and contributing to retirement. Also, technically half the money for whatever you outsource comes from your partner’s paycheck since he is half responsible. These worksheets on division of parenting and domestic responsibilities might be a good starting point: http://herestheplanbook.com/dividing-household-responsibilities[/quote]
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