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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old is the teen — closer to 13 or closer to 18? [/quote] Closer to 13.[/quote] At that age, he still needs you to do or supply things for him. Always give him a choice of two activities so he makes the decision for himself — one is what you want him to do, the other — his defiant choice, but with a consequence. Inform him of the consequence at the time you’re giving him the choice so he knows what he’s choosing. Think of it ahead of time and make it something he also doesn’t want to happen but you control, like no special sneakers or no internet access for a period of time that would be difficult for him. You need to hold firm on the consequences if that’s what he chooses — he needs to know you mean what you say. Hopefully your DH won’t undermine this. If he does, seriously consider family therapy. [/quote]
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