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Reply to "Shall I keep the embryos? I know I don't want any more kids"
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[quote=Anonymous]Imagine they are gone. Lost in a freak accident like an earthquake at the storage facility. See how you feel. You are also in the thick of it with a toddler. I started wanted a 2nd when my first was 18mo - which now seems crazy given that my second was very difficult from 18-24mo. Look at pregnant women and see how you feel. When I started looking at pregnant women or women with tiny infants and thinking “thank goodness that’s not me” I knew I was done. We had 11 embryos thawed a few weeks after our 2nd child’s first birthday when I was 40. It didn’t feel sad even though I knew it meant we were really and finally done having biological children. It felt good and freeing because my family felt complete. I needed to wait until I was done with any “what ifs”. [/quote]
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