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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry OP.
I'm a cheater who has gone through IVF and all that goes with it. It is a stressful time. Not to excuse your wife, but if her coping skills aren't good, I can see how this would happen. Easily. She's being stuffed with hormones and drugs, she feels like a failure, everybody around her is pregnant, she's hurt and angry and crying and irrational. She doesn't want to admit all these feelings to you (because you are the one she cares most about) and there's this other person who listens to her (with unconditional lust in his eyes ... when for you and her sex is now a baby-making chore).)[/quote]

She said part of the reason why that she had such issues w[b]as because she didn't think I wanted to have a kid with her.[/b] I took her word with that and made it most of a thing I was trying to help her work through. I guess I approached the EA like she was ill.

I don't think that I am being rational and I am not going to upend my daughter's life for something like this. I may just be depressed now and not thinking clearly. [/quote]

1) did you want to have a child with her? did you want to have a child at all (regardless of the fact that you love the shit out of your daughter now) or were you just doing it for her?
3) [b]and is this just her excuse? It sounds like an excuse. It isn't the real reason she had an EA. There's more to this story. [/b][/quote]

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