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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The executor MUST follow the wishes of the will.  Get a lawyer.[/quote]

+ 1 Isn't it obvious? Get the lawyer.

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OP here. There is no need to get a lawyer and not point of my post. My vent was that by their naïveté my parents and their thinking familiarity with finance for what is a stupidly simple estate was most important. By choosing BIL they set in place a fracturing of the family.  BIL's action seemed from get go intent on destroying what had been a least a pleasant connection among us siblings by purposefully withholding information and presenting things in ways to cause the most acrimony. Getting a lawyer #1 would turn this into a fight I have zero desire to engage in and I don't know to what purpose. Which ever church ends up getting the bequest is not that huge of a deal - especially as my parents had relationship with both. None of 'kids' are churchy people but none of us object either of the two getting the money. That one brother is sure it was meant for one church is upset that because one of his kids goes to the elementary my parents intended it to go there and a sister was sure is was meant for other to celebrate the SJ stance one of the pastors at the other took. 
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