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[quote=Anonymous]Ok so here’s the thing.

Our mattress sucks. When DH comes to bed it sags on his side and anytime he moves I get jostled around. Between his snoring and the baby fussing, I get no sleep. I’m sandwiched between DH and the bassinet and it gets HOT even with the AC. DH doesn’t get up at all in the night to help with anything and I’m frustrated with that. And yes - I’ve tried. He says he will do the diaper changes but when push comes to shove I’ll try 3x to wake him up and he won’t get up. The other night when he did actually wake up, his necklace got stuck on his pillow and instead of figuring it out, he went back to sleep with the necklace still stuck. So I can’t rely on a grown man to get up if he gets stuck in his own bed.

DH goes to bed at 9 and wakes up at 4. Im about to kick him out if he’s not going to help. He claims he needs his sleep and that’s why he’s reluctant to help. So I feel like he should just sleep on the couch.

And he does help during the day - he cooks and cleans during dinner. He does the laundry, grocery runs, waters the lawn, takes out the garbage and help with bedtime. But night time is not his thing.

Did anyone else do this? [/quote]

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