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[quote=Anonymous]I don't want to start a war about this but I'm really curious about something. Why does it bother you when SAHMs talk about what they do or express their frustrations? I was reading the "what surprised you about being a SAHM to young kids" thread and it was fairly reasonable and non-contentious for many pages. Mostly SAHMs and former SAHMs talking about the various pros and cons. But then a bunch of working moms had to come in and start shaming SAHMs for their choice.

Why does it bother you if SAHMs want to talk about their issues among themselves? Why do you feel the need to butt in to prove that you're better? "Well *I* have a flexible job that allows me to get home at 3:30 and I make 200k. My husband has the same except he makes 500k." I'm exaggerating but only slightly. Surely you realize that those are unicorn jobs? Great for you, I really mean that! But it's not relevant to the conversation or the OP's question. OP obviously doesn't have a situation like that or she'd mention it. She probably wouldn't be weighing whether to become a SAHM or not.

Why do you feel the need to butt in?

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