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[quote=Anonymous] I went through this last year with my visa. We are in the country because of my husband's job, and had to file for a new visa for him and me. I was NOT allowed to contact the lawyer directly to get updates on the visa process, because the male, Asian attorney pretexted that the male, Asian employer had not included my name on the list of approved contacts, and when I petitioned the employer (small start-up, we knew each other), he politely declined to add me. My Asian husband to this day sees nothing wrong with this. My visa paperwork has confidential details about my life, and is the document that allows me to stay in this country - I was deeply un-nerved that I could not even see my file and talk to the lawyer about MY case, except through my husband (who was always super vague about everything). I felt so powerless and condescended to. I saw that episode as bureaucracy mixed with misogyny, pure and simple. [/quote]
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