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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would assume that grandparents visit for every birthday, yes. Can you put boundaries on the visit? "Thanks for visiting, MIL & FIL. Can you meet us at XYZ restaurant Saturday at 6 for Larla's birthday?" How far away are they? Does visiting mean spending the night at your house, or just the afternoon?[/quote] OP here - close driving distance, but yes, visiting means spending the night in our home. I would have NO problem if they were local and wanted to come over for a b-day, but having visitors is disruptive. We have a very small home, and having visitors means we're unable to use 1/3 of it.[/quote]
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