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[quote=Anonymous]About a year ago we would do things with another couple but we have been declining invitations and avoiding them for the past several months. They are about 5-10 years older than us and are part of our extended family but nothing like a close sibling or parent etc. We originally thought they were fun and they were super excited to do things with us. We realized that they are crazy and have really inappropriate behaviors. We have simply been avoiding contact and told them we would see them at a family event sometime in the future. We haven't been able to make it to the last family event due to other circumstances and now one of them (the wife) is constantly calling us to do something. We keep declining and she has now started asking us rudely. Now she is demanding that I have coffee with her to discuss our not accepting their invitations. I have said no and we avoid responding to their texts or calls.

I don't have any interest in going into it with her on why we don't like her. My plan is to stay no contact and have an exit strategy for family events if we get cornered. If this doesn't work, is there any tactful and non-dramatic way to tell someone like this that you just don't want to do anything with them?[/quote]

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