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[quote=Anonymous]Nice reminders don’t work at all. Not wanting to leave my DH because I like him so much for other reasons, the only things that work are: Thanking him for everything he does do/clean (even though that’s completely one-sided). As much as possible, clean while he is there (without complaining, just make the labor visible). Leave him alone with the house/kids regularly (business trips make this easy but if you don’t have them, figure out a way. Take up golf or something). Processing your anger on your own and/or with a therapist and making sure you don’t impose your standards on EVERYTHING he does (this is why being gone is so helpful). That doesn’t mean being a doormat, it just means genuinely handing over the reins sometimes and getting comfortable with the results unless your kids are in danger. [/quote]
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