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[quote=Anonymous]OP, others may have seen that side of her too. Her husband may feel he has to make her sound like a saint. I have been to funerals of cruel relatives where everyone, even people who hated them, made them sound like saints. I've had people gush to me about my mother as a saint and how selfless she was taking care of my dad. She was the queen of rage fits and she threatened to divorce him constantly once she became a caregiver. That was a step up from when she threatened to smother him with a pillow and we got a doctor involved. (Didn't think she would harm him and he was no peach to her, but she was definitely crying for help). Don't be surprised if your BIL moves on fast, even your sister was truly kind to him. I've seen many a widowed man be engaged or married within a year of the loss. The kids are lucky to have you. I personally would not have helped to pay for the funeral of someone who was cruel to me, but that is done.[/quote]
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