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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is there a space that's just his? Like a desk or an office?

Huck all his leftover shit in there and close the door. If he complains, tell him you're not his maid and that he has no right to impose his sloveliness on the rest of the house.

I too have a sloppy husband with ADHD who literally doesn't see the messes he makes. So into his study go all those empty envelopes, dropped socks, unfolded laundry, etc. I close the door and let him deal.[/quote]

There is, we made one for just this reason.  But it still means I have to sort through everything to figure out what’s his (he also puts zero effort into getting the kids to clean up their stuff when he’s on his own with the kids, which means I have to be the bad guy who rides them to do it after I get home) and then things that are joint (like tools, tax papers, etc.) that I don’t want to lose, I still have to take responsibility for cleaning up and putting away.  Not to mention the regular cleaning of dishes, running laundry, etc.  For the poster who will inevitably ask, yes, I do work outside the home.[/quote]

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