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[quote=Anonymous]How does he expect you to get a job overseas? And yes, all your savings, etc. is joint, and will be equitably distributed between the two of you. If you are working and not contributing to daily bills, I assume your money is being used for savings, and in that respect you are contributing to finances. You guys need savings. But maybe he doesn’t like looking st it that way. You could redistribute responsibility. Both of you base bill paying and savings proportionately on your salaries. If he makes 60% of the HHi and you make 40%, develop a budget that includes saving and split the cost proportionately. So he will have to start saving too. Without knowing more, he just seems stressed by finances. So I’d also do a credit check and see if he’s run up something you don’t know about. But if this is his one pressure, work to relieve it, and he should hopefully calm down a bit.[/quote]
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