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[quote=Anonymous]Lesbian couple one kid, now divorced. When I was married I always said things worked best when we each felt like we were doing 60% of the work. When we moved in togethert, I was in grad school and would do more of the cooking, cleaning, errands because I had a flexible schedule and was often around during the day. I feel like that set a bad pattern and even after I got a big job, I still did more of the household stuff. My ex sometimes did about half (once after getting lectured by her grandmother), but I was always happier when it was closer to 50/50 and she felt happier when I did 70 or 80%. She still did more than a lot of straight guys I know, but I think many queer relationships are not actually that equal in terms of household stuff.[/quote]
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