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[quote=Anonymous]lesbian couple with 2 middle schoolers. DW makes much more than I do, but has greater flexibility (works from home some days, can flex her schedule to do after school activity pickups, etc.) The division is generally pretty equitable, but ebbs and flows based on our work responsibilities. Because of her ability to flex, she often can drive them to sports practice and therefore gets the kids fed before she takes them (and before I ever get home.) But there have been points in her career that she traveled a lot (30%) which shifted responsibility solely to me during those weeks (about 1 week/month.) Household stuff is fairly equal - though she probably takes on more of it because she has a lower tolerance for clutter/mess. We are also both very involved in leadership activities for the kids' school/teams. [/quote]
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