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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I have been married for about 10 years. We have two kids. We’ve dealt with the usual issues- debates and difficulties over children, money, the house— and through it all, I’ve been patient, a good partner and kind. DH has good days and bad days. He can be kind one day then later that day, throws out a snide comment. For example, we went to dinner the other night. We started talking about vacation plans and long story short, a simple suggestion I had was met with a snide comment about money. Then for the rest of the meal he responded two a few emails from work saying, “Sorry but I need to deal with these ASAP.”

The night started out great. He’s hardly interested in date nights and I’m the one who suggests them most of the time unless it’s a movie HE wants to see or a restaurant HE wants to try.

Yes, divorce has crossed my mind. Sure, I worry about the kids but sometimes I think if I recorded one of these negative interactions and showed it to my kids one day they’d say, ah yes Mom, I get why you had to do it.

Oh, and I don’t think he’s go the counseling route. He’s not big on apologies. What else could I do other than divorce? First date night for he next 10 years and avoid long conversations?  I need to fix this. We are in our 40s. He is who he is. [/quote]

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