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[quote=Anonymous]Single woman here with married man. I ended it after 4 months. Initial attraction was purely physical on both ends. But I discovered quickly that I’m not wired that way, and for him it was also turning into an EA as much as a PA—more intimacy for both of us than expected. More risk of fallout and pain for all parties.

Ended it by text—explained what I did above, pretty much, thanked him, and told him I had only good thoughts of him and isn’t that the best place to end it. He didn’t respond, but a month later he messaged me that he liked my dress (he drove by me walking). Left that one alone.

I’m grateful for it. I’d had no plans to date just wanted to meet physical needs. He reminded me, briefly, of the other pieces I was missing and that dating again would be worth it.

Can’t speak for him, but I’d think this is about as good an ending as possible for an affair (though he’d probably have preferred to be the one walking away). No drama ending and I never told a soul until this post.  He loves his family. If he’s smart he kept his mouth shut and turned his energy toward them and toward his marriage.
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